Do you think it is possible that a Persian guy could take a non-Persian blonde girl seriously? Or do they only want that one thing from us? I am a decent girl, and my Persian (ex-)boyfriend has left me without a word... I mean he forgot to call me after we had a relationship for 2 months. I did not give him what he probably wanted. He always acted like he respected me and never said a word about it. I'm not really surprised cos I kinda felt that he was only playing with me but now I wonder whether he would have done the same with a Persian girl, too? Is it because I'm blond and not Persian? I would like someone to answer this question, who knows how Persian guys' minds work... ;)
blonde girls & persian guys?
#1
Posted 04 September 2005 - 07:31 AM
Do you think it is possible that a Persian guy could take a non-Persian blonde girl seriously? Or do they only want that one thing from us? I am a decent girl, and my Persian (ex-)boyfriend has left me without a word... I mean he forgot to call me after we had a relationship for 2 months. I did not give him what he probably wanted. He always acted like he respected me and never said a word about it. I'm not really surprised cos I kinda felt that he was only playing with me but now I wonder whether he would have done the same with a Persian girl, too? Is it because I'm blond and not Persian? I would like someone to answer this question, who knows how Persian guys' minds work... ;)

"Give her back to me
I want that girl back
Don't walk away with her beliefs
I want myself back
Don't tell me that you're innocent
No, you're not a saint
I should bring you down on your knees
Instead I'm lamed
What has changed...?"
#2
Posted 04 September 2005 - 07:38 AM
Chances are if he had gone out with a Persian girl he would've expected the same thing and once she didn't give it up, he would've left her too.
The only thing I imagine is that he expected you to give it up more easily!
Angels make the world a much brighter place. Children are the live angels of earth.
#3
Posted 04 September 2005 - 07:55 AM
Have a nice day, Angel!

"Give her back to me
I want that girl back
Don't walk away with her beliefs
I want myself back
Don't tell me that you're innocent
No, you're not a saint
I should bring you down on your knees
Instead I'm lamed
What has changed...?"
#4
Posted 04 September 2005 - 08:50 PM
olive, on Sep 4 2005, 07:55 AM, said:
Have a nice day, Angel!
Persian guys and blondes
its like a magnet 4 them
#5
Posted 04 September 2005 - 08:52 PM
DoKhTaR_TeHrAnI, on Sep 5 2005, 03:50 AM, said:
olive, on Sep 4 2005, 07:55 AM, said:
Have a nice day, Angel!
Persian guys and blondes
its like a magnet 4 them
lool.yeah... but why ?!

Can you read this, Luke Skywalker?
#6
Posted 04 September 2005 - 11:25 PM
olive, on Sep 4 2005, 07:31 AM, said:
Do you think it is possible that a Persian guy could take a non-Persian blonde girl seriously? Or do they only want that one thing from us? I am a decent girl, and my Persian (ex-)boyfriend has left me without a word... I mean he forgot to call me after we had a relationship for 2 months. I did not give him what he probably wanted. He always acted like he respected me and never said a word about it. I'm not really surprised cos I kinda felt that he was only playing with me but now I wonder whether he would have done the same with a Persian girl, too? Is it because I'm blond and not Persian? I would like someone to answer this question, who knows how Persian guys' minds work... ;)
it happened to my sister, and she's persian.
the guy was too.
no worries, it has nothing to do with you being blonde.

#7
Posted 04 September 2005 - 11:32 PM
olive, on Sep 4 2005, 05:31 AM, said:
Do you think it is possible that a Persian guy could take a non-Persian blonde girl seriously? Or do they only want that one thing from us? I am a decent girl, and my Persian (ex-)boyfriend has left me without a word... I mean he forgot to call me after we had a relationship for 2 months. I did not give him what he probably wanted. He always acted like he respected me and never said a word about it. I'm not really surprised cos I kinda felt that he was only playing with me but now I wonder whether he would have done the same with a Persian girl, too? Is it because I'm blond and not Persian? I would like someone to answer this question, who knows how Persian guys' minds work... ;)
I would have to agree with Angel for the most part on this. Also, it's extremely rare to see a Persian have a serious relationship with a non-Persian. Doesn't matter what country you go to.
There's a saying: "date those outside your [ethnic] background and marry those within." I used to not believe in this, but the older I get, the more I believe in it. This applies not only to both Iranian boys and girls, but other nationalities as well.
For him to leave you without a word, that's just because he's a complete jooje and a disgrace to the Persian male population.
But who cares, right? Move on and find someone that will treat you with the respect and kindness that you deserve.
khakam, khoonam, vatanparesteh, iranam
#8
Posted 05 September 2005 - 12:06 AM

HS to NIU 09'
Nader/1000
#9
Posted 05 September 2005 - 07:33 AM
GLTitan7, on Sep 5 2005, 07:06 AM, said:
lol...all of the men in the world are Horny

Can you read this, Luke Skywalker?
#10
Posted 05 September 2005 - 03:14 PM
Siamak, on Sep 5 2005, 05:33 AM, said:
GLTitan7, on Sep 5 2005, 07:06 AM, said:
lol...all of the men in the world are Horny
esp. u siamak joon
#11
Posted 05 September 2005 - 06:52 PM
~freeiran~, on Sep 5 2005, 10:14 PM, said:
Siamak, on Sep 5 2005, 05:33 AM, said:
GLTitan7, on Sep 5 2005, 07:06 AM, said:
lol...all of the men in the world are Horny
esp. u siamak joon

Can you read this, Luke Skywalker?
#12
Posted 06 September 2005 - 01:45 AM
toofi, on Sep 5 2005, 05:32 AM, said:
There's a saying: "date those outside your [ethnic] background and marry those within." I used to not believe in this, but the older I get, the more I believe in it. This applies not only to both Iranian boys and girls, but other nationalities as well.
For him to leave you without a word, that's just because he's a complete jooje and a disgrace to the Persian male population.
But who cares, right? Move on and find someone that will treat you with the respect and kindness that you deserve.
I have to agree with the saying you mentioned. I've always thought, too, that I would never want to date somenone from a very different culture than mine. Simply because there might be too much differences in our world views, goals etc., and there might be misunderstandings, too. I thought I had this very firm principle. And in the end, I found myself hookin' up with a Persian guy...
And I have to agree with GLTitan7: Yes, Persian guys are agressive! But they are so damn cute...

"Give her back to me
I want that girl back
Don't walk away with her beliefs
I want myself back
Don't tell me that you're innocent
No, you're not a saint
I should bring you down on your knees
Instead I'm lamed
What has changed...?"
#14
Posted 06 September 2005 - 03:19 AM
pourya, on Sep 6 2005, 08:35 AM, said:
"HOT SPECIES"...
Is there an expression for us European people, too? I mean something like "cold"?
Or how would you desribe us? Is there any word that comes to your mind?

"Give her back to me
I want that girl back
Don't walk away with her beliefs
I want myself back
Don't tell me that you're innocent
No, you're not a saint
I should bring you down on your knees
Instead I'm lamed
What has changed...?"
#16
Posted 06 September 2005 - 03:42 AM
MashMohandes, on Sep 6 2005, 09:34 AM, said:
Oh, you made me realise that I've made a generalisation, and I HATE generalisations! So: Not all Persian guys are cute, but a lot of them!
And it strictly concerns only physical features!!!!!

"Give her back to me
I want that girl back
Don't walk away with her beliefs
I want myself back
Don't tell me that you're innocent
No, you're not a saint
I should bring you down on your knees
Instead I'm lamed
What has changed...?"
#17
Posted 06 September 2005 - 03:45 AM
olive, on Sep 6 2005, 09:19 AM, said:
pourya, on Sep 6 2005, 08:35 AM, said:
"HOT SPECIES"...
Is there an expression for us European people, too? I mean something like "cold"?
Or how would you desribe us? Is there any word that comes to your mind?
I’ve always considered European girls as rich cream pastries! So fresh in taste and SWEET!
You see, I live in Sweden and here we have two types of Iranians who date non-Iranians: those on the right socio-political wing who do play with European blondes and marry Iranians and those on the west wing (my peeps) who basically love transcendently! No matter the ethnic or cultural background, they are open to new horizons!
Btw where are you from, if a may ask? You m might have mentions it before but I’ve missed it!

#18
Posted 06 September 2005 - 03:55 AM
pourya, on Sep 6 2005, 09:45 AM, said:
olive, on Sep 6 2005, 09:19 AM, said:
pourya, on Sep 6 2005, 08:35 AM, said:
"HOT SPECIES"...
Is there an expression for us European people, too? I mean something like "cold"?
Or how would you desribe us? Is there any word that comes to your mind?
I’ve always considered European girls as rich cream pastries! So fresh in taste and SWEET!
You see, I live in Sweden and here we have two types of Iranians who date non-Iranians: those on the right socio-political wing who do play with European blondes and marry Iranians and those on the west wing (my peeps) who basically love transcendently! No matter the ethnic or cultural background, they are open to new horizons!
Btw where are you from, if a may ask? You m might have mentions it before but I’ve missed it!
WOOOOW!!!
No, I didn't wanna specify where I'm from. Well, it's Central Europe.
I said I've never wanted to have a serious relationship with someone with a very different cultural background. But when I yet did, I found it really interesting to learn more about a country, I'd not known much before. Unfortunately, the guy belonged to the first group you mentioned...

"Give her back to me
I want that girl back
Don't walk away with her beliefs
I want myself back
Don't tell me that you're innocent
No, you're not a saint
I should bring you down on your knees
Instead I'm lamed
What has changed...?"
#20
Posted 06 September 2005 - 04:04 AM
pourya, on Sep 6 2005, 09:58 AM, said:
nice trick... very nice... now I really wanna know whether we mean the same country.
But I can imagine, that there are other countries, who claim the same...

"Give her back to me
I want that girl back
Don't walk away with her beliefs
I want myself back
Don't tell me that you're innocent
No, you're not a saint
I should bring you down on your knees
Instead I'm lamed
What has changed...?"

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